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Resources & Connection

No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real resources for real people in real recovery — across every road that leads there.

Curated without the sugarcoating

Every road to recovery deserves a map.

These are resources I trust — not because they are perfect, but because they are real, evidence-informed, and actually useful for the kinds of recovery that do not always get talked about.

Substance Use

SMART Recovery

Science-based, self-empowering addiction recovery support. No higher power required. Built on cognitive behavioral tools and motivational techniques.

Substance Use

Harm Reduction International

Because abstinence is not always the first step, and meeting people where they are saves lives. Harm reduction is not giving up — it is staying alive long enough to choose.

Domestic Violence

National Domestic Violence Hotline

1-800-799-7233 | Available 24/7. If you are in an unsafe situation, this is your first call. Safety planning, resources, and real human support.

Trauma

RAINN

The nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. Confidential support from trained staff via phone and online chat.

Mental Illness

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)

Education, advocacy, and support for people living with mental illness and their families. Because mental health is health.

Nervous System

Polyvagal Institute

Understanding your nervous system is not optional — it is the foundation of everything. The Polyvagal Institute makes the science accessible.

Homelessness

National Coalition for the Homeless

Resources, advocacy, and connection for people experiencing homelessness. Because housing is a human right and recovery requires stability.

Narcissistic Abuse

CPTSD Foundation

Peer support, education, and community for people healing from complex trauma, including survivors of narcissistic abuse.

Narcissistic Abuse

The Mend Project

Free education and survivor-centered support resources for people recovering from narcissistic and emotional abuse.

Homelessness

211

Local help for housing, food, shelter, health care, and more. Search by ZIP code or call 211 to find support near you.

Homelessness

National Alliance to End Homelessness

Practical resources, housing advocacy, and guidance for people navigating homelessness or helping someone who is.

Sober Living

Oxford House

A network of peer-run recovery homes that helps people find substance-free, community-based sober living.

Sober Living

Sober Living Home Directory

Search sober living homes and recovery residences by location, then ask each home about availability, costs, house rules, and support services.

Treatment Finder

FindTreatment.gov

A confidential national locator for substance use and mental health treatment, including outpatient, residential, and recovery services.

12-Step

Alcoholics Anonymous

Find local AA meetings and recovery support for people who want to stop drinking.

12-Step

Narcotics Anonymous

Find local NA meetings and peer support for people seeking recovery from drug addiction.

12-Step

Co-Dependents Anonymous

Find CoDA meetings and resources for people working to change patterns of codependency and build healthier relationships.

Domestic Violence

DomesticShelters.org

Searchable shelter and support-group resources for survivors of domestic violence, with safety planning information.

"Recovery is not a destination. It is a practice. And there is no single right way to practice it."

These resources represent a fraction of what is out there. If you have found something that works for you — something unconventional, something that raised eyebrows, something that saved your life — that is valid. That counts.

This list will grow. Come back. And if you know of a resource that belongs here, reach out.

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